I have a boyfriend for many years and im 19. And we literally cannot have sex. We have done everything else. He has fingered me and he has fit a good amount of fingers (4). I can even fit five fingers in my self. It doesnt even hurt at all when 4 fingers r there. I dont think I have an abnormally small vagina, and I don’t think im scared of penertation. I’m always super wet too, so its not being dry.
**I really need tips!!** How do I make sure it goes in? Why is this happening? He isnt soft or anything either hes always hard. What can I do before sex to make sure it goes in? Is there anything I can do to my vagina? Like practice or something? Is there a specific angle and position we should be using bc nothing works. Is there something I shuild be doing with my hands?
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Maybe first try it with a small to medium size dildo and see if that works, if it does then perhaps he is pointing his penis too low or too high while trying to have intercourse with you or he isn’t fully hard. It also could be that intercourse really scares you at the moment so your muscles squeeze really tight and he can’t get in. Maybe you could guide his penis with your hand to your vagina to see if the angle is good? Also if its stressful try to relax, maybe have a lot of foreplay, and buy lube definitely ( even if you think you are wet enough the lube will be even more helpful), perhaps he can give you a relaxing massage and you can try some herbal tea or a glass of wine if you don’t mind drinking alcohol. Also try different positions, like you could get on top if you want more control. Hold his penis in your hand and insert it into your vagina. If this problem persists you should go check with a doctor.
What isn’t working when you’re trying?
Try sticking something relatively penis shaped in there a with your hand until you have a feel for the movement. Then try putting his dick the same way