Hey 25 M here, I haven’t really dated anyone, I haven’t really found the courage to ask anyone out or show my interest in Irl and some of my crushes are busy with their life and as far as the Instagram, I like a girl a very much, haven’t really felt like this to anyone before. It feels like a Beach breeze when I see her posts.
We had some dumb formal conversations. I don’t know she is seeing someone or something like that. How can I show my interest over her without making her uncomfortable or so. I am very bad at phrasing the words too.
I feel insecured when I want to show my interest towards any girl. Is that the fear of rejection? Or something else. If so, how can I overcome that.
Please give me some advice people. TIA
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I don’t have an easy solution for you. I go through what you described very often.
You will have to shoot your shot but play it cool/casual. I’d look for an event near both of you that you think she might be interested in and ask her to go with you on a date.
You asking isn’t going to “ruin your chances” because if she says no, that’s what your answer was going to be no matter what you said or did.
Show your interest by asking her out on a date. Something fun but inexpensive.