And although i didn’t date the other person, I think we were both interested. Things didn’t work out and were left midway. Is it normal that I am kind of feeling weird? Idk I kinda feel a little anxious about it.
Maybe also because I reallyy liked the other person and would still try with them if I had the chance. But that probably might not even happen.
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Happens with all of but all we can do is go with the flow… Before making any move think twice…
I wish you all the best
I think you might be overthinking here. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you dating someone who might be friends with your almost ex. The almost ex and his maybe friend would have to deal with awkwardness on their own, but there’s nothing you can do about it.
But…..
>would still try with them if I had the chance.
Soooo, there’s nothing wrong with being hung up on someone, and of course, you should move on with your life.
But if after a while you’re still hung up on him while dating someone else and still wanting to pursue the almost ex, then I’d say you should probably break it off.
Be like a stallion and keep going till you have nothing left! Or else you’ll keep wondering ‘what if’
No harm in going on dates. Getting physical might cause you to have issues down the road with the friend. Depends on the friends and what’s crossing a line. Kissing might be ok, but it might not. Either way you can get to know this one and keep your tongue in your mouth and pants on.
If you feel like you would still pursue a relationship with this person’s friend, then I don’t think it would be fair to date them. I would not want to be dating someone who was secretly interested in one of my friends.
I assume you are Indian. We have different culture. If it’s a college or both guys are immature, maybe avoid dating friend if being shamed bothers you. You might get labelled as “s1ut” among hostel boys.