I know this is a really silly concern but im 19 and have had a boyfriend of two years. We’ve done pretty much eveyrthing else but sex. He can fit many fingers in, like 4, although I think his penis is bit thicker than that. Even by myself i can fit many fingers in. I don’t think I have some problem that my vagina is abnormally small or something. But im scared it might be that? Even though I can fit fingers in and even spread out the hole a little bit. But overall I dont think thats the issue.
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Also, Im not dry at all. Im super lubricated and wet so I duno what that is either.
I’m really tired from not being able to consummate our relationshpi like this. I know it doesnt matter but I am so extremley frustrated.
Maybe the issue is the angle. I dont rly know what angle to go at or what is best for the first time. What’s the best way to make sure it fits inside. Also, i dont know how it will ever just go in in one go?? even when i put in fingers its one by one, but i feel like something that thick is just impossible to go in at one go.
**I need some kind of advice. What I can do before we meet up to help it go in, what to do during, etc. What angles and positions would fix this problem?**
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>He can fit many fingers in, like 4, although I think his penis is bit thicker than that.
If you can get four fingers in then there couldn’t be anything possibly wrong with your vagina.
>I dont rly know what angle to go at or what is best for the first time.
Missionary works, if he finds that difficult then lie on the edge of the bed so he could be standing and doing it. This could offer him more control and grip to put it inside you.
>Also, i dont know how it will ever just go in in one go?? even when i put in fingers its one by one, but i feel like something that thick is just impossible to go in at one go.
Yes, it should go in a little further each time and be slow and consistent while trying to getting it to go in. Use a lot of lube and never use force to make it go inside as it’ll do more than good. And don’t forget to use protection every time.