The dynamic just changed so suddenly and they became so distant and aloof and keep giving excuses that they are busy but are posting stories and being energetic with other friends and it has honestly left me feeling like “??!!!!!??”
Its making me feel i did something wrong to make things worse but I actually did not. Idk what to do.
I even keep asking them to talk about it and say things as they are but they are still ignoring everything as if our friendship doesn’t mean anything to them now.
WHAT SHALL I DO?
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People grow out of friendships. Perhaps they evolved in a way you don’t make sense in their life again, perhaps they saw they don’t make sense in your life again. People change and you should just move on.
Your ex friend is incredibly immature and cruel to do this to you. Even if you had done something to upset them to the point of not wanting to be your friend anymore, they owe the friendship and explanation. That they haven’t done that is not a reflection on you. I’m sorry that your friend broke things off the way they did.
I think he likes you. In THAT way. And he’s feeling upset about it and taking it out on you.
Life flows no matter what. People come and go. You “asking to talk about it” probably makes them not want to deal with what seems like “nothing” to them. Just move on. You’ll never get the answers for everything in life. Just let things be and go live your best life with people who actually want to hang out with you