Basically I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month and I felt it was stuck and not moving forward so I straight up asked what he wanted and he basically told be he isn’t ready for a relationship and wants to do hookups. I said that’s fine and that we could still be friends and left it at that. Now that I’ve stopped texting first and putting in the effort, he is now sending me texts/insta reels throughout the day (which he didn’t do before) and is making plans to go out and do stuff with me. It’s so confusing. Any thoughts on why the change ?
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Probably realized that you’re not some desperate woman who’s gonna waste your time chasing after his sorry ass.
Push Pull method, is exactly what happened here.!