I (22F) am traveling to Europe by myself (London,Berlin) this upcoming August. I could say I am an introver-extrovert who loves meeting people but mever in my life can keep a conversation for more than 10 minutes. I get a bit shy and just feel like people are losing interest in talking to me, so I sometimes avoid even talking to new people in the first place.

Last time I was in Europe I was with my best friend. She is my other half. Super extroverted, always have something cool to talk about and knows so much of a lot of things. She naturally atracts people because she is so open, and I learned so much from her when we were together in Europe. I made so many friends, met so many cool people and always had someone to smoke a cig with.

Now that I’m going by myself, I fear I will not be able to be as open and extroverted because I will not have my other half with me. The reason I was able to make friends was because she made me feel confident and comfortable, helping me carry convos and connection with other travelers. Yet I fear I won’t be able to make as many friends or meet as much people as my last time.

Any suggestions on how to approach people and how to keep convo going when I get akward?:(

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  1. Shared areas!!! There’s always a wifi spot or a living you can stay and get to know around you. You can also ask the people in the front desk for help or guidance.

    People in hostels are almost always willing to know other people, say hi and where you are from and the basic light chat chat.

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