Hello. I (21m) have never really been in a serious committed relationship before in my life. Last year I tried to start dating and it didn’t work out (in college) and made me aware of many problems about myself including lack of social skills, especially with women. It also somewhat lowered my self esteem but I started going to the gym more because of it. I tend to get really nervous around women I find attractive and end up messing up every time I try. I don’t really have many female friends, most of my closest friends are male but they’re asexual and they don’t exactly feel comfortable with me talking to potential romantic partners when I’m with them at a bar or other social settings. I’d appreciate any advice or input.
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Do you masturbate? It’s a serious question. I’m also terrified of women, But I become way better at talking to them and they seem to be more at ease around me when I don’t masturbate for at least a week. Look in to it.