Im in a Love triangle, as the girl I’ve be crushing lately is best friends with her ex and she and she just hangs out with him and they have body contact(Arm wrapping and soft touching), and I’m worried. They dated briefly but broke up on good terms and her friend is only friend thus I can’t just tell her she can’t see him anymore.
They go out a lot and make plans together. But me and her have also dating for the last 6 months. I recently confessed to her and she’s doesn’t know how to decide but tells me that she likes me as well, and so i gave her a month for her to reflect her feelings for me and make a decision.
thing is that she is very fragile and her previous ex (not the friend) was abusive and so she doesn’t have that many friends and her ex was her only friend thus I can’t just tell her she can’t see him anymore.
And every time we hang out together, the ex is very possessive and doesn’t let me hang out with her and intrudes in our conversations and shields her away from me.
He knows that she is seeing me, and he keeps making plans to get her from hanging out with me, and she can’t refuse sometimes cause shes scared she might lose her only friend.
Her ex is my Best-friends brother, and its clear that he has lingering feelings for her but he also dated her friend in high school after they broke up (strange i know) and broke afterwards as well.
I was thinking of approaching her friend and have a talk and discuss this tension thats has been created.
What should i ask him? how do i approach this? I’ve no experience in dealing with this kind of drama.
TLDR: Girl I’ve been seeing has a Friend who’s her ex, keeps trying to get her away from seeing me.
2 comments
Maybe date someone with a fully developed frontal lobe?
You’re 29, don’t mess around with someone this age.