How do you address your partners insecurities?

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1. By being as open and transparent as possible with him. I find that a lot of insecurities you have may stem from not knowing your partner well enough or if they’re intentionally hiding something from you. This was sort of a routine that we practiced at the start of our relationship, but we scheduled time every now and then to have short “check-ups” on how our relationship was going, how we could make it better, etc. It was regularly scheduled time for us to throw out anything onto the table without any fear of judgment and I think it really helped us understand each other better than anyone else does in our lives. Naturally, there will be times where you hurt your partner or make them feel uncomfortable. The key is to discuss the issues with an open, rational mind and come to a compromise where you’re both satisfied.

2. I haven’t dated in a while, but my (now) ex and I would always check up on each other and make sure that the other is healthy, mentally and physically. We would have conversations and ask each other how we were doing, what’s on our mind lately, etc. If something was worrying us, we could always rely on each other, to vent, or to give advice. We were always honest with each other, and it was wonderful. If nothing was bothering us, we would move on and find something else to talk about.

   We did that about once a week, or sooner, if something was bothering us. Even though we’re not together anymore, we’re still friends, and can still rely on each other. They were the best partner I could have asked for. 💖