Guys, what would a good date look like for you?

13 comments

1. Hobbies and thoughts about them.

   Chill and honest.

2. Why is there a variation of this question asked every day in this subreddit(good, ideal, perfect, etc.)?

3. When there is enough time in a quiet enough place to share something real about each other, not just small talk or surface platitudes.

4. I’m into her

   That’s really the only distinguishing factor between a good vs bad date

5. depends on the date number

   date #100 in a relationship ? – dinner and a bj

   date #1 to an attractive stranger ? – still dinner and a bj

6. Chill, good food, cuddles, and just healthy amounts of conversation.

7. 99% is the girl/woman 1% whatever you’re doing. Sitting on a park bench talking for three hours is heaven if you are with the right person.

8. A walk and a conversation

9. Good, organic, flowing conversation. Mutual attraction.

   If you have to ask what to talk about, then it’s not organic and flowing.

10. Hello fellow feet pic vendor. I find guys just like when I jam my feet in their mouths.

11. I have this date idea I’ve never been able to pull off because I haven’t had a date in years.

    But I’d like to find somewhere scenic with a view. Set up a table, serve her dinner and pay a college musician to play the violin for an hour while we ate.

12. A good date could be literally sitting in a dumpster if your company is good.

    Just be loose and free. I hate how uptight first dates and stuff can be. For me and my fiance a perfect date for us is just time together and food. Food is a must on dates even though we didn’t really eat on our first date, we always eat now when we’re out.

13. She offers anal on a first date