Hi I’m 29/f and have fantasies about having sex with randos. My partner 30/m has also mentioned how it would be cool to make some videos and post them, but in reality he gets jealous very easily. I know I can’t open up our relationship, nor would I actually want to have sex with strangers. But I fantasize about it all the time and it’s making me think I should start an OF to meet in the middle. Does anyone have advice about asking their partner for permission to start one? I feel like it would backfire at some point. Also… I have a good job and wouldn’t want to make it obvious that it was me. Is there a better option to feed this fantasy without OF? I’m open for suggestions.
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For starters, that is a very hot pickle you find yourself in! Agree there is a danger of it going wrong either way. Not sure OF is the solution to your fantasy though. Have you ever posted pics on Reddit? Just wondering if you had, whether the response from guys was gratifying or just made you want to fuck strangers more?
Also, I think it’s really common to fantasies about having sex with strangers… so certainly hope you don’t feel bad about doing that!
If he is jealous, it will surely backfire.
Role play that with your partner. He can be the stranger!
If your partner has severe jealousy that sends an alarm bell in my head, I would suggest not to poke the bear because it may set him off