I don’t know why this thought is sticking with me for so long, but I can’t imagine what it’s even like. To you just go about your day, see your partner, go “welp, I’m horny now” or “now would be a good time to plow them furiously”? Or maybe they do something slightly attractive and you just decide “Yep we’re doing this?”
I mean, sex takes a lot of effort with the undressing, energy, attempting to not be too loud if you’re walls aren’t soundproof, the sweating and clean up, and then dressing up again and getting back to your day. I just can’t wrap my head around how it can be engaged in spontaneously with any form of regularity.
And even if it isn’t, and it’s planned, won’t it lose its spice much quicker if it was scheduled? I feel like it’s just a catch 22 but people are apparently going about doing whatever they’re doing, multiple times a day non-consecutively even.
Is there a general social preference for spontaneity or scheduling? Isn’t it too much of a hassle? Or is the hassle there but it’s worth it to engage with someone sexually? I’m really curious.
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I can assure you that no one ever said welp I’m horny now and that led to ex. Sometimes it’s spontaneously sometimes it isn’t , you engage sex by being affectionate like kisses and touching and cuddling. There are different ways just depends what kind of person you are. Sex may be a lot of effort and is technically as exhausting as sport but it’s fun and if feels good which is why people do all of that , the undressing the tiding up after. It’s just a real nice feeling and even better when you are in love with that person