28F I’ve been on and off the apps for years. Overtime I’ve become more and more disinterested to the point where i reply to msgs every other day or 2-3 times a week/swipe through likes during that time too. Sometimes I don’t do anything for a week. I’ve noticed with the guys I actually find attractive, some are responsive but MOSTLY they take longer to reply I’m not sure if they’re mirroring me. From that point I can sense how it’s going to end (ghosting/fizzling out) & I stop msging all together right away early on. Playing games I guess