This guy I am seeing:
We have been on 5 dates now.
Dates 3 and 4 included having sex.
Date 5 was just a nice time out, and we talked for a long time.
We text a little just about every day for going on 3 months now.
I am leaving the area to go study in about 2 months, but I’ve really started to like him. He’s kind, and attractive, and I like being around him.
I originally told him I was looking for casual, and at this point I don’t know how things could work with me moving. I said this the first time we met up. His life is kind of up in the air right now, as he is leaving his job and starting something new, but on the first date he had said he could be open to something more serious at this point in his life.
Would it be stupid to tell him I have feelings now? Is that just needlessly ruining a nice casual thing? Guys, would you want to know about how my interest has changed if I didn’t know how to make something work out? He’s talked about his desire to have kids, how he wants to have a farm, etc, but I don’t know if I’m reading too much into him talking about these things.