I grew up really sheltered as far as my home life: no internet, home schooled etc. I never understood my own body or the male body so I never really understood what was happening when I was abused. I’ve never seen porn or had sex ed.
I’ve looked some up but I got nervous as it looked really graphic.
I need advice to start a sex life. Help?
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You’ve got two main options
The first is find a stranger and have a random one night stand. They’re fun, but if you’ve got past trauma they can be tough
The second option is find someone you know, someone you trust, and ask them to have sex with you. You’ve got a better chance of them being understanding about your trauma
How about start a relationship based on conversation and sharing and allow sex to follow and flow naturally. The find a stranger or ask a friend to fuck you would likely be disappointing if not actually traumatic.