So I (M18) been together with my gf (W17) for a while now and we had sex two times and I fingered her a few times. I was her first time. She says says she enjoys me fingering her and she looks like it during it but stops me after a while. I’ve asked her every time what I could do better and why she stops me but I can’t really get a clear answer. When we had sex the first time she was going to stop but we continued anyway and she looked to me like she was close to cuming but says she isn’t sure if she did. Later she told me it did kinda hurt but less the second time which I guess is somewhat normal right? I think it’s a mental block or something but I really don’t know what to do. We always do a lot of foreplay where I touch her gently and we make out.
I think I’m gonna ask her to completely relax the next time we have sex and let me do everything because she was kinda struggling with the rhythm anyways last time and see if that helps. Is that a good idea? Any ideas on what I can do to help her orgasm?