If you are bored with someone does that mean that is someone you shouldn’t marry?

7 comments

1. I wouldn’t advise it. If you’re already bored, marriage will bring out the worst and the best aspects of you and your partner. It will eventually drive you both apart

2. You have to describe in a lot more detail what boring means to you for someone to really give you clear advise on it.

3. It just depends. Some people get bored just because the relationship isn’t toxic and their partner is peaceful and reliable, so it wouldn’t really be the partner who is the problem.

4. If you’re already bored like previous comment I wouldn’t suggest getting married.

5. Boredom is a problem within yourself, not a problem with the other person. Interesting people are never bored.

   –But we definitely need more context to appropriately answer the question.

6. I would’ve thought that would’ve been a given, if you’re bored with somebody why marry them?

7. Definitely… We have been married 5 decades and have never been bored with each other. We have had countless friends who were bored with their spouses and their marriages never made it past the ten years mark.