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I’ve been seeing my very much beloved girlfriend for about four months now, and last week we were able to finally have sex twice in the same day. This wasn’t without a large amount of struggle, as me and my partner had been trying for nearly a month before hand with difficulty due to my own challenges getting erect. Luckily it got better and I was able to maintain an erection well enough to do the deed, which I was very much fond of and felt incredibly comfortable with during.
But now, even though we’ve already had sex, my erection issues are coming back again. Twice now while trying to initiate sex I’ll have a very solid erection until we put a condom on and lube the outside of it, at which point I just start losing it completely. What’s stranger about this is that we used condoms and lube during the first time too, same brand (skyn but unsure if it’s a different variety) and the same lube. During the first times the feeling didn’t bother me but now during the last two it just feels so odd.
What should I to resolve this? I am very much attracted to my girlfriend and am desperate to have sex with her again. Me not staying hard ks also hurting our relationship since my girlfriend takes it horribly personally despite her efforts not to, and she’s told me it makes her feel very undesired.
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As the girl I’ve been in a similar situation, my bf explained it to me and I understood, we ended up getting different condoms which were easier for him to put on, and Id always help by touching / doing shit to his dick while putting it on- and also putting the condom on myself. I’d recommend more foreplay so ur more aroused and or different condoms that fit better -if that could could be an issue. You should talk to ur gf I’m sure she’ll be understanding if you explain the situation