Hello
I’m 21M and I struggle in life, especially with women. It’s not hard for me to get sex, but I don’t want only that. I want a meaningful relationship on which my potential partner and me can build upon.
I had the same scenario happen to me like 10 times already and my self esteem is on the lowest point ever. It’s always that I get to know a wonderful woman, we hang out almost daily, then we have sex maybe once or twice. The next day/ week they always ghost me.
I don’t know what I’m doing wrong and why it keeps on happening. I am in therapy because of it, but it doesn’t seem to help. I am always ‘nice’ to women (not niceguy nice, just kind) and take time for a potential partner. I am very transparent and invite them into my life.
Last time this happened was on my birthday. I’ve known the girl for 2 months, we hung out 3-4 times a week. Made out every time, escalated to foreplay etc. Then on my birthday we went playing pool, to the city and then to her place. Made out the whole night and had sex late. The next day she kissed me good bye very enthusiastically.
Two days later I asked to hang out again. No response. found that she unfollowed me on Instagram. I knew it would happen. I am so heartbroken again.
Does somebody maybe have advice to why this keeps happening?
Thanks very much for every input