Feel Unnatractive due to lack of sex
I could write out a huge paragraph but I’m going to make it short and sweet. My fiancé(M29) and I (F26)have been together over 6 years we are going to get married here in the next few months. We used to of course be adventurous and have sex all the time.. well there’s been a lot going on lately with us remodeling the house, life changes, and he has been struggling mental health wise due to his line of work… I feel defeated in general because he feels expressing his problems is a weakness.Also, anymore I feel like I’m a burden in the bedroom. I don’t even expect anything on my side anymore I just make sure to get him off so maybe it will help him feel better. I feel ugly because I feel like I’m not wanted.. my confidence has taken an major nose dive. Which if I don’t have sex all the time, it usually does plus I’ve gained weight here lately. I just want him to feel better and happier. I know he can’t help what hes going through and it sounds selfish to worry about sex but its a very important aspect of both ofnour lives. I’m so down I’m not as excited to get married. Plus I’ve always wanted to do more in the bedroom despite my confidence. He is very vanilla. Has anyone dealt with this before? I know this is a rough spot but overall I want to improve our relationship in the bedroom..I do everything I can to make him feel loved and let him know I’m here for him. I’m trying to get him to talk to someone about his mental health. Just his work makes him so stressed and anxious and it triggers his trauma. Any help on any if this would be appreciated!