I still have like half a day until I do it but I want to be prepared.
Despite never having done anything with an amab (assigned male at birth) before, I am quite the cockslut and have been wanting to suck dick for quite some time so I am pretty sure, that I’ll be really into it myself, since that is the most common tip on how to give a good blowjob I’ve seen.
But I would still just like to ask if anyone could give me any more advice since I want this to be good.
As for our “relationship”: this is just a hookup so nothing romantic, as such I’d rather not kiss him or anything like that, I’ll be focusing on his cock only.
And as an additional question: Should we use protection? He is a virgin but he has also not been tested before and as stated earlier, this is just a hookup.
Thank you for reading this and I would appreciate any advice I could get, have a great day.
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First, be sure to swallow. And keep sucking WHILE he is cuming. That will increase the amount of ejaculate he squirts. And the more a man squirts at once, the stronger the orgasm.
My wife gives me such strong orgasms that my eyes roll towards the back of my head.
I’d say take it slow. Don’t just bob up and down aimlessly. Use your hand to incorporate a slow stroke while kissing his head. Use your tongue to circle it and don’t be afraid to make it sloppy. Watch his body react and of what you’re doing is working, stick with it. Again, take it slow.
use your hands too simultaneously , slow licks up and down (build up suspense), make sure to make eye contact, a lot of spit (don’t be afraid to be messy), make gagging noises even if you don’t feel the need to gag (boost his ego), and actually form a suction with your lips around it instead of just keeping it in your mouth (:
Don’t forget the balls!!!!
Be enthusiastic! Just have fun with it! And if it gets messy and slobbery, that just means it’s good 👍
Suck don’t blow 😂
if you’re having sex, use a condom, that’s a no brainer. but even if you’re not having sex, make sure to bring one extra, it’s not impossible to have sex when you’re in the moment.
first of all, know that when you start it’s inevitable to finish. it’s not guaranteed that he’ll cum in your mouth, especially if you guys are just doing bjs through foreplay. this is why it’s important to set boundaries. are you comfortable to have him cum in your mouth or no? very important to talk about these things way before you start.
this is how i like to do my ex: i say build a lot of tension, take it slow. very important to start by kissing him, go down his neck, nipples, and then slightly touch his member. make sure he’s feeling every touch and that he’s watching you. if you don’t use lube, spit in your hand and jerk him off at least a minute and then go mouth level w his penis. lick it a bit while jerking it off, and then put it in your mouth. up and down motions. my ex liked it when i swirl my tongue around while i suck his dick, maybe try that if you want to. sometimes deep throating is uncomfortable, and for your first time, make sure to communicate if you feel uncomfortable if he guides your head through the motions.
also, know that you can take breaks. what i like to do when i want to take a short breather, is i look at his eyes, leave the tip in my mouth, and continue jerking him off. it’s fun to see and hear him feel pleasure.
but through experience, i find that men have different sensitive points and preferences. as you explore more you’ll learn how to make each other feel the most pleasure.
Teasing is also A1 👌🏼