Me f(18) and my boyfriend m(19) have been together for two years. We moved in together within months of dating ( which I know was dumb) because we had known each other for years and had dated before for three years. Recently we had to move out of our previous living situation and we moved in with some family of mine. My family likes to keep to themselves and was willing to let him stay with them too.
A month or so into living with them we started butting heads and I told him I needed a week of him staying with a friend to get my head straight and to reevaluate my mental state. During that week my family brought up to me that it was a lot more comfortable to them while he was away and I felt a lot better having my own space. I had a talk with him and offered to let him stay for a couple weeks to figure out where he was staying. He declined and for a while we fought over the phone and through text over minuscule things.
We were doing better for a bit until my mental health plummeted after a family member of mines physical health declined and I went into a depression hole. Now when we talk it’s always the same few little conversations here and there, it’s just not the same. I don’t know what to do in this situation because I love him but things are different now. What should I do?
TL;DR my boyfriend and I have been together every day for two years and now that we’re not living together it has made me rethink things, but I can’t decide if it’s because of the stress I’m under or if the relationship is just simply doomed.
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I kind of want to say fake cause of what is stated with the ages stated but if it isn’t. Your relationship is basically done, as soon you wanted him to find a different place to live that was pretty much a break up talk and he took it as such. You don’t live with someone for almost 2 years and think that everything is going to be fine after telling the other person you need them to live some where else.
Sweetie move on. You have your whole life ahead of you!