So I (25f) recently started a FwB thing with a friend of mine, and it’s my first relationship of any kind in awhile. I’ve always masterbated everyday, and I figured that was just my drive. But lately I’ve noticed sex doesn’t stop my need to do it. Like we’ll meet and have sex, and then a few hours later I still need to get myself off. Not a big deal either way, but is this a common thing?
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It can be, you may just have a high sex drive, nothing wrong with that
Do you get off when you’re having sex? Conversely, when you have masturbated, do you need to go again a few hours later?
If masturbation satisfies you for a considerable length of time and sex doesn’t, then the conclusion would seem to be that sex, at least in the way you’re having it now, isn’t what you need.
Masturbation doesn’t have to be a substitute for sex. I will masturbate regardless of how much sex I am having. It’s time for me, to love on my body and explore my body. There’s nothing wrong with that. As long as it’s not interfering with your sex life and not raising to the level of addiction, you’re fine.
I’m often finding myself doing the same thing! I usually enjoy the masterbation part moreemote:free_emotes_pack:grimacing
I masturbate more when I’m sexually active. It’s like my sex drive gets ramped right up from having sex.