Recently I’ve had many friendly conversations with strangers (I was on a trip) and I’ve realized that I very often try to avoid talking about my live but genuinely enjoy speaking about the other persons life. I don’t know if I consider myself too boring, or if I think they wouldn’t be interested. Does anyone else feel this way? Do you think the other people find it weird that we mostly talk about them?
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No but putting your output or opinions help the convo flow better
How do you feel when you do talk about yourself? I don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong with focusing on others as for the most part, people do enjoy talking about themselves. That said, you probably have just as much to offer as them.
If you were really honest with yourself, why do you think you’re not wanting to talk about yourself?