Well hello there, my partner and I started dating 3 months ago and although we have a lot of sex she never cums and so we had a discussion and she said “ I enjoy it a lot but every time I have a peeing sensation I stop myself because I don’t want to get the sheet and the bed wet”. Like how do I make my partner let go? Because now I crave that satisfaction
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Sounds like she’s a squirter. She will need to come to terms with it.
If she feels like she has to pee that’s a good thing. Let it flow
[https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm](https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm)
Her worry seems to be not wanting to get the bed sheets wet or dirty.
So figure out how to have sex where you’re not on the bed sheet.
There are many options for this and maybe one of them could be having sex in the shower.
And since it sounds like you’re getting introduced to some porn videos then another option would be totally doing it on the floor while there’s a plastic sheet.
Although if it’s related to squirting , which you currently don’t know if it is yet or not, then you probably have to cover anything else in that general direction too.
You shouldn’t *make* your partner do anything. I appreciate you want to help. This should be that, how you can help her. It all needs to be about her. This is about her satisfaction. It’s an important reframe.
Uhhh… tell her she should go pee before sex??
Not that much of an issue….
You gotta pee too so she feels more comfortable