So, I’ve been with a girl for just under a year, and I’ve always thought something wasn’t “right” with her hair.
Suspicions started to grow, her hair feels… different. And I’ve never felt her scalp before because it always seem obstructed.
Yep, I believe she has a hair piece. So this got my curiosity going… today I grew the balls to just ask.
Rather than answering, she gaslighted me by saying I should be asking more relevant questions. So, it seems that I’m likely correct here.
1. Was I out of order for asking?
2. Is she in the right or wrong for hiding this?
Lastly, could I be completely wrong here? I don’t know what my brains thinking here, I’m just confused as f.
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did she answer or not? Her response was odd
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if it took you a year to work it out either your blind or a very good wig or she just has dry hair…there is a war going on in Ukraine, people are starving around the world, earthquakes etc….and your worried about your dates hair and if she should have told you so…women are very sensitive about there looks…if you dont like keep your mouth shut and leave…
1. No you weren’t out order.
2. As far as I’m concerned, and the level of honesty and transparency I like in relationships she is in the wrong, though it isn’t black or white. It could be a great insecurity but you aren’t wrong either to expect transparency and not deceit. One year is a decently long time.
Lastly, well yeah it is a possibility. Though if my boyfriend of one year suspected my hair was fake, I would definitely show him they were real and whatever else I wanted to chide him for, like asking stupid questions, would be anicillary.