My penis is 7 inches long and 5.5inch girth, she told me it hurt too much having sex with her ex who was average size. We have talked about this already and she says she’s nervous but wants to try still. Is there anything me and my partner can do before, during and after we try having sex to make it a more comfortable experience? Any help is appreciated.
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Lots of lube and Make sure she is aroused. Try to start with her on top. This way she can control the penetration depth and speed.
My penis is 8,26 inch long and 6,3 inches girth. Still able to penetrate any girl lol.
You’re definitely bigger than average, but the pain she felt with her ex, seeing he was average, is probably not related to size.
He was probably lousy in bed and didn’t pleasure her enough before penetration.
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The best way is to **make her cum before PIV, with either fingers or oral** (easiest way I think). She’ll probably be craving your dick so much at that point that it’ll be much easier.
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Do know there’s a chance **a dick** ***can*** **be too long for a given girl**, and hurt her when hitting the cervix. I’m preparing a post on how to handle size differences for my newsletter (to be released later this month), but in the meantime, here’s how to do if it happens :
* **Choose positions where you don’t go as deep** :
* Girl on top where she’s in control (you don’t do the movements)
* Classic missionary (she can close her thighs to control your depth)
* Avoid anything from behind (sorry)
* **Change the angle**
* In missionary, by lifting her hips with a pillow, you’ll be less likely to hit her cervix, and bonus : you’ll hit her G spot more easily !
* Use either your fist around your dick or a silicone ring like Ohnut to **limit how deep you go**
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Last thing : even though there might not be a mechanical problem, there’s still a **psychological** one. So make sure to let her know you’re gonna be very gentle, and really listen to her reactions. Better be slow and make her feel good, so she trusts sex can make her feel good again.