I want to cuddle with my bf, I look at all these cute TikTok’s and videos and I want to be like that with my bf. But when he shows me affection physically I get so awkward. And I feel awkward giving it myself too. Even tho it’s what I want. Anyone relate?

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  2. Start small…holding his hand on a walk or while watching a movie, if you’re not doing that already. As you feel more comfortable, you can sit close when you’re together and get to cuddling eventually. Lowering the lights may help minimize the awkwardness?

    Also communication! Let him know you’d like to cuddle, but you’re not sure you’re ready yet…I think sometimes just acknowledging “hey I’m awkward” and maybe getting encouragement in return can help!

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