So I (20M) and my girlfriend (19F), had sex and she took my virginity. But I didn’t cum… For context, she’s NOT a virgin but I am and we did it while we were kind of limited on time and it was kinda like, “I’ll let you try it if you want” type of thing. She said it felt great but she feels like she’s not enough and said her feelings were kind of hurt as she’s not a virgin and she’s never had a guy last as long as me. Is there something I’m doing wrong, is she lying to me, or am I just nervous or was it just not the right time? I don’t want to believe she’s lying to me but I feel as maybe I was just too focused on finishing quick rather than enjoying it, or I was too nervous and didn’t finish…
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You did nothing wrong. It was your first time. Of course it’s not going to be perfect. Actually, just the other night my partner couldn’t finish because he was so exhausted. It didn’t make me feel unwanted or like I wasn’t enough. Your gf should be more understanding.