23F.
I know “self esteem” says I’m not supposed to care, but this has always happened and I have no idea why.
At work, I’ll talk to people and be outgoing. However, they usually just laugh and walk away. Maybe give a sentence long response. When they go, they end up having full and enthusiastic conversations with someone else.
It’s annoying because another girl I know does the same thing but everyone talks to her. She’s a week newer than me too so it’s not a “new girl” thing. Some people also rebuff me.
I don’t understand why this happens and I don’t understand why they don’t like me when the other girl is basically the same, with the addition of complaining/freaking out all the time.
This is so frustrating. I’m myself, I get rejected. Im quiet, I’m treated like some anxious basket case. I have no idea what to do anymore.
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When ppl ostracize you, more often than not, it’s because they believe you to be above them (whatever that means).
For example: I have a very chill relationship with coworkers. Until the CEO openly claimed that I am some kind of genius… everything went downhill from there and many coworkers avoid me like the plague since then.
You can’t really do anything, do your job and go home. Find friends somewhere else.