So my fiance gave me bj for the first time yesterday and I was about to explode after few seconds. I loved and was in orgasm when she had in her mouth. I didn’t want to cum in her mouth being a first timer. But is this normal? How should I react and keep it going? Any tips?

2 comments

  1. I would perhaps let her know in advance that you have had only limited experience with BJs, and let her know that you’ll do your best to let **her** know if/when you might be ready to blow. I know I appreciate that coming from my husband, then it’s my choice whether I pull him out or keep going!

  2. Yeah, *talk to her* about what you both want.

    This isn’t just a “good idea.” It’s really fundamentally crucial for two people, who are on the verge of *getting married*, to develop really open and honest conversations about sex.

    You need those kinds of convos about, say, parenting philosophies, right? Or where you might want to live. Or household finances/chores. These all require conversations, not all of them comfortable.

    *Sex is no different*. You two need to be able to talk about this stuff. And yeah, sometimes it might be awkward or difficult. You may realize you’re not always going to want the same things. *And that’s ok*. Relationships, least of all marriage, involves working on things and through things *together*.

    So get a head start now. Talk to her.

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