Hope this is the right place to post this. Looking for advice or at least an explanation. So I just had the absolute best sex of my life, it took a while and was slow paced with stopping and starting but it felt amazing and was very rough but loving and amazing, it was honestly great, but then of course when we go into doggy and he pulls out my body decided to let the air out and it sounded like a fart. i panicked, went red and just hid into his chest and said i was so sorry. I explained what it was and he didn’t seem judgmental but I panicked so hard and immediately stopped. Currently in the bathroom dying of embarrassment wondering if he thinks I just decided to do that mid sex. I’ve had this happen before with sexual partners in the past and I hate it as it always happens during or after doggy. Is there anyway to stop it from happening or making it less noticeable? What even is it? i’m so embarrassed so any advice appreciated. Ta x
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Lol sounds like it was a queef. Nothing to be embarrassed about. It’s just trapped air being pushed out of your vagina. Look at this article for more info: https://www.health.com/condition/sexual-health/what-is-a-queef Advises to do level exercises to strengthen the pelvic floor and “may help” queef less. But again, it’s nothing to be worried or embarrassed about. I myself find it funny when it happens and my previous partner did too or just didn’t mind it
You queefed – nothing at all to be ashamed about, and you should just relax and not let it get into your head. 😊
It’s a queef. It’s completely normal. Air gets trapped in there during sex, and it’s going to come out. If you have to react next time just laugh out off as an obvious consequence of what you just did together. It’s absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. And I’m talking from the perspective of a guy.
Queefing is absolutely normal and nothing to be ashamed about. Air that get’s in has to come out. It even can be fun playing with it unless you don’t like the feeling of it.
Nevertheless you can avoid it at least a little when you don’t pull out too often in doggy. when the penis stays inside there is a smaller chance for air to get in. Especially when your partner spreads your cheeks during doggy since this increases the vacuum inside you.
Oh man just laugh and carry on
It’s a queef or vaginal flatulence. It happens as the result of air getting inside your vagina, which has a high possibility when doing a doggy and that too by taking a pause. There’s nothing to be embarrassed about, as it is quite a normal thing. Just go in there and continue what you guys were doing and finish it properly.
>Is there anyway to stop it from happening or making it less noticeable?
Unfortunately not. It’s not something that’s in your control to make it less noticeable or stop it.
It can be avoided if the depth is controlled, but it doesn’t help always.
It happens because in that position some air is getting trapped into the vagina. It’s a bit less likely to happen if the guy doesn’t pull out too far when going back and forth but in the end it happens almost every time, just part of that angle especially if you keep going for a while🤷 just treat it like another one of those normal and slightly awkward things that happens during sex, like having to reapply lube or getting sweaty. If your partner doesn’t know what it is he’s pretty inexperienced (which is fine, for the record) so just casually explain that it happens from pushing air into the vagina. If he’s bothered about it, he’s too immature to be having sex.
If you switch positions and want to make sure all the air is out you can gently pull your vagina open with a finger, that usually doesn’t make too much noise. But absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about, it’s just air.
You hid into his chest and he wasn’t judgmental. I’d say that there isn’t a problem here. Some women would commit murder for a partner like yours.
Go back to the bedroom and continue where you left off.
that was a queef and a ton of people have that happen in that position. he probably didn’t think much of it.
Whaat, this happens all the time. It’s literally nothing!
Sex has some awkward moments, sounds, smells etc. Just learn to roll with it , have a laugh and enjoy. Don’t take it to seriously.
If he didn’t seem judgmental I’d trust that. I don’t know if it’s all men, but my man loves every sound that comes with having sex. He doesn’t try to make me queef but when I do he says he loves it. I just believe him and continue.
As everyone said, it’s a natural phenomenon, nothing wrong with it, just laught it off.
You partner didnt care about it as he should, so everything fine.
Farts and queefs and such are normal during sex. It happens. Don’t sweat it
Queef or a real fart…couldn’t care less. My wife does fart many times when she kins of loose control, specially in our foreplay. Doesn’ bither me a bit. Natural bodyfunctions. Guys who can’t accept, should not involve in anything sexual.