Hi all,
I’ve been noticing something which I don’t think is necessarily bad, but might become an issue.
I’m a 31 year old man, single since a couple of months. I noticed that when I look at myself in the mirror, often I get a positive association with how I look. I’ve been doing muscle training for more than a year now. Not spectacular at all, definitely not near a body builder on anything, but since I’m very slim I definitely can see some changes like a more defined chest and increasing biceps.
Additionally, the weather has been sunny and warm for weeks here now. With these temperatures (around 26 degrees Celsius in the house) anytime I undress, my flaccid penis is notably larger than usual which kinda arouses me (not like I’m getting hard immediately or anything, but more like, hey look at that hot dick 😏).
I know I have bi tendencies and can like male body parts. And of course I’m happy I’m getting so self-positive, but on the other hand, isn’t it weird having this all the time with myself? Also, when it becomes a trigger to start wanking too often I think that’s not good.
I just wanted to share this and I’m open to any thoughts on this. I’m especially interested if this sounds familiar to anyone.
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Eh that’s better than checking yourself out and feeling sexy, then just getting hella frustrated/angry because you’re not that into masturbating and your partner is already asleep, and proceeding then to talk yourself out of feeling sexy in the first place to cope with that frustration (which is not too great for the self-esteem, unfortunately tends to be what I wind up doing)
Don’t wank-shame yourself.
My ex husband definitely had this despite being straight. I think it’s pretty normal and a lot better than being self-repulsed