How to stop obsessing over someone not texting back?

I matched with this guy on hinge a month ago. We started texting and have spoken on phone couple times, he seemed like a great guy. He was always respectful of the things I said, whatever that is, I said honesty and loyalty are very important to me and he was respectful of that too. We planned on meeting one time while i was at my friend’s place but my friend said No since we both were super high he was understanding of that situation and said its okay we’ll meet later. but after a week, we made plans to drive around in town (this would have been our first meeting), and before meeting him I was at a friend’s place, gotten pretty drunk and when it was time for him to come pick me up, my friend had suggested to drop the plan as I was pretty drunk and she was concerned about my safety. There was a lack of communication or rather I wanted him to be there so I can meet him so he was there. But my friend physically stopped me from going downstairs and she and him gotten into an argument. He was pissed and was upset we didn’t respect his time. I don’t remember what my friend and him talked about but it seemed like they got into an argument and he said something as you put me off.

I was upset as well, I don’t blame my friend at all. but I was upset, I actually wanted to meet him in that drunken state. I don’t remember but my friend told me I was crying and had said, “I lost something I had the potential to progress”. next morning I apologized and asked if I could clear up few things and responded much later saying i have some relatives over so we’ll talk later. I waited 2 days before texting again, I apologized and cleared a few things up in a paragraph to which he responed ” thats fine” He won’t check my stories and left me on delivered for few hours now. I’m getting anxious. I like this guy and it seemed like he did too. What do I do. I don’t understand what went wrong here.