I don’t know how to feel about this anymore. I liked this guy for months and it seems like he shows interest in me in person but the only problem is he keeps commenting thirst comments on these insta OF models pictures. We haven’t even hung out outside of work, and the fact I had to remind him the other time if we can hang out in person and he hasn’t gave me a straight answer. But what really
Bothers me is that It makes me feel sad because I really liked this person, it makes me think he’s just another player. He texts me almost everyday I never initiate contact first because I don’t want to feel like I’m chasing him. I don’t know if it’s worth it anymore. Is this a red flag, should I just cut him off?
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You make a compelling case of he’s just not into you. Thirst commenting shows lack of impulse control and immaturity around sex. I had a crush on a girl that reminds of something similar.. OMG am I realizing how much I was trying to validate myself by dating someone with a look.
you work together. he is clearly attracted to you in person. you are attracted to him. he is avoidant, either because he doesn’t like you that much, or he doesn’t want to risk his job for pursuing you. the only way this moves forwards is if you take initiative. OF girls are a distraction at best, you shouldn’t view it as competition. what do you do for work?