What turns you on?🫦

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1. Eyes and smiles

2. Knowing I’m in a loving and stable relationship.

3. communication

4. Public play

5. Someone showing genuine interest

6. Empathy intelligence responsibility maturity and a high level of organization.

7. Well, when women have that dark feminine energy. And also when they wear specific dresses/heels that they know makes you go crazy. Let’s not forget when women who like being controlled/dominated but at the same time they either try to dominate or even control the whole situation/environment.

8. True love

9. A soft-calm voice, and appreciation.

10. Someone witty and sarcastic

11. Affective responsibility, assertiveness, empathy, gentleness. But above all, it’s to feel cared after, and loved. Valued. Yeah that’s my biggest turn on. Oh and nice smells like fragrances or perfumes, or maybe just the person’s own smell, but that doesn’t happen often to me.

12. Lack of any sort if vicious energy towards others: someone who doesn’t really talk shit about other people (especially women putting women down which is a massive turn off).

    Amazing relationships with their exes (huge green flag for me tbh which means they may have had generally healthy relationship and didn’t get involved with someone toxic to begin with)

    Kind to people in general, like servers and service workers.

13. Beards, confidence, respect

14. Mathematics

15. Effort and loyalty the bare minimum

16. Men with long hair.

    Chest hair

    Introverted men

    Not shown outwards/ but secretly massive sexual energy.

17. Someone flirting with me while whispering in my ear, how hard it is to keep denying their feelings.

18. Neck kisses and deep breathing in my ear🥵🫦

19. Any time my husband does anything remotely helpful, which is most of the time.

20. To be kissing and feel his bulge 🥺👍

21. Hairy men!

22. only my girlfriend turns me on.
    anything she does always turns me on

23. Thigh high stockings

24. Girls wearing glasses, love them for no particular reason

25. i want to be hugged and be told that i can rest easy and there’s no need to rush life.

26. A woman who loves me back. If she likes plenty of foot massages while lounging on the sofa to her favourite show even better.

27. When your partners really into it, not just going along to make you happy. Can be anything from sharing a common interest to oral sex.

    But going down to the nitty gritty? Making my partner cum so hard she squirts and loses control of her body.. that or when she gently rocks her hips into my mouth as I’m sucking on her clit and massaging it with my tongue, while grabbing g her ass cheeks and pulling her harder onto my face. That little grinding motion along with the “oh fuck, oh fuck, ohhh fuckkk” right before she cums so hard her legs are shaking?

    I might be able to bust just from that and no direct stimulation it’s such a turn on

28. Apparently mental instability😕

29. When he acts like I’m in trouble. Like I’ve done something bad and I need punishment. It could literally be anything. Like we would be talking about something and I make a counterpoint and prove him wrong. He’ll get fake mad and wanna punish me. It’s an erotic type of aggressive, if that even makes sense. And when he finishes me with the “good girl”

30. Being manhandled. He’s not afraid to put his hands on me because he knows he owns me. Throw me down, force my legs apart, pull me down the bed, help yourself. So fucking hot.

31. I’ll assume that this was meant to be a question related to sexual/bedroom actvities..

    So, i think i’d say – men that are vocal, like, moaning in bed are rly hot to me.