we’ve been married for 5 years now. Our first year, I was a very confident person and I was very dominant on the bed, Idk how to say… I was just good. Later years, I felt less confident and now I am feeling uncomfortable and/or shy. I want to make him crazy about me like our first years, I want to be dominant again and have the control and the confidence in the bed. Now we have only two positions we always do and that’s it. I asked him to be open with me and tell me the positions he wants to try or new things he’d like to try, but he just says that what we’re doing is fine and he’s enjoying it. I don’t know how to gain my confidence back.
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Maybe go shopping for some amazing lingerie that will make you want to show it off to hubby?
>I want to be dominant again and have the control and the confidence in the bed.
What’s stopping you from adding new things while you have sex? Like not something drastic, but a small thing like a change to some new position that you want to try. You can change it if he isn’t comfortable but no harm in trying.