Long story short – have only finished once with my husband (married 2 years, both virgins before), was always able to finish by myself but last like 4ish months if I do “finish” by myself I feel like the pressure/pulsing kinda feeling but no actual pleasure, like only 1/5 times I will actually feel it . Idk why . Any advice ? Has this happened to you and/or what can we try so I can finish with him? I want ti and he wants to make me but idk I think I just get in my head and get embarrassed for taking so long