Background: I’ve never been through a heart break. Never had a girlfriend or serious feelings for anyone before.
I (20M) developed feelings for a girl who went on to become my best friend (20F). I couldn’t tell her how I felt because of her ex (they were together for 2 years). One fine day, they break up, we have sex and the next morning she tells me that it was nothing more than sex. She knew I had feelings for her, she used it to sleep with me. She meant more to me than I could possibly describe using words. There’s just this void that I’ve been trying to fill with unhealthy habits. I don’t know what to do, everyone keeps telling me the same thing- there are plenty of fish in the sea. It just doesn’t make sense atm. Haven’t spoken to her since, and yet she continues to live in my head rent free. How do you guys move on?
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First off, how could you expect a relationship from someone that just broke up from an ltr? Granted, it was wrong of her to pick you for her post breakup sex, especially since I am sure that she knew of your feelings. That was taking advantage of a situation.
Personally, knowing I got used by someone that should care about me is how I would get over her. She thought so little of your friendship and feelings, that she could toss her relationship with you away, just for a night of rebound sex. Looking at it like that would help me get over her. Good luck to you.