so first of all, me (f20) and my bf (m23) are both virgins.
a month of being together, we finally decided to do the deed yesterday (June 25, 2023 Sunday) around 3:30am and in my car. I was so tight to the point where he couldn’t really get the head in lol and even just by rubbing it to my pussy, he came in after a few seconds.
few hours later on the same day, we tried it again during the afternoon in my bed this time. he managed to get the tip in after I told him to spit on it first but after a few slow in-and-out, he came in again after 2-3 mins.
every after doing that, he kept saying sorry to me and I can see that he’s so ashamed of it. I wanna be a good and caring girlfriend for him as much as I can so I tried comforting, repeatedly telling him “I don’t really mind” and that we can always try again next time.
he’s a grower as well so after spilling those babies out, it gets small obv and definitely takes quite a while before getting hard again.
any tips or advices that can make him last longer? and has anyone here ever tried Edge Delay Gel, any reviews/feedbacks about it? thanks in advance mates
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He’s had literally a day’s experience. Give him a little time before trying to numb him with gel! Most first times are like that. Talk to us again after six weeks’ practice. 🙂
So he lasted 2-3 minutes his first time ever actually getting in?
That man’s 100% normal.
Next time use lube though. Easier going, less friction for him as well. Might be able to last a bit longer.
But it’s new! And 2-3 minutes is *not* quick for someone who has never actually done it before.
When I lost my virginity, my BF had the same problem. This is normal. My advice, give him a hand job first, and then start to fool around. Have him finger you and use his tongue on you.
Even now, when I do this with my partner, he’ll last a long time in me while he’s thrusting.
There are condoms with menthol or something, I know I couldn’t cum at all with that. Also bit of alcohol drink will make it hard to cum, but not caffeine, it’s a hell of aphrodisiac.
he’ll get better
A script online for a low does PE medication would do the trick. Or edibles if you are in a place where you can get those.
Strength training, specifically dead lifting and squats, can help build up endurance in some cases for men. And also practice edging I believe can help increase sexual stamina. And at 23 just touching him again should be enough to get the ball rolling again. I’m a good bit older and that still can get me for round 2.