My boyfriend(M18) and I(F18) have been together for 8 months. It always seems like he’s too busy to hang out, and he always has an excuse why he cant. He is always doing something like hanging out with his family or working. I know that’s what he’s doing, but I’m always worried that he’s lying or that he’s only keeping so busy so that he doesn’t have to see or talk to me. During the school year I see him most nights even though he has sports and other responsibilities, but this summer I only get to see him maybe 5 hours a week. How do I stop worrying so much? Should I actually be worried he doesn’t want to see me or be with me anymore?
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Plan something in advance with him. Hold him accountable to that date and if he flakes then I wouldnt talk to him anymore. He doesnt make time for you so its best to find someone who actually cares.