I remember reading a post a while ago that some guys find it emasculating when women grab their ass during sex. I just want to know how many people do think this? Its kind of a reflex for me to grab a guys ass because I’m wanting to put more pressure on where I want to feel pressure myself if that makes sense? So that I can feel them on my clit lol
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No, the more grabbing the better!
As a man, I love it so much when my wife does this to me!
Mostly she grabs it when she is about to cum. One of the best time she grabbed it was when we came together
Ask for consent. Simple. Not every guy is the same
Depends on the guy, but as a general rule, this is okay. When looking to grab something, even with someone new, it’s easy to encorporate on-going, enthusiastic, informed and explicit consent during sex by using dirty talk. Tell a guy you want to grab his ass, he gives the go-ahead, grab that booty and be a little power bottom rocking your hips up to grind against him with your clit when he’s thrusting into you. A pillow under your bum angling your hips up will decrease how much work you have to do while also increasing the depth of his penetration. If he’s too long and is knocking on the cervix door, legs straighter.
This will be a good thing for the greater bellcurve of men.
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You can wrap Your legs around Him as another option.
Every guy is definitely different. I know my man likes it when I grab his š and I for damn sure like doing it.
I also like when he grabs mine and spanks me, but thatās neither here nor there š
My ex used to do it when I was climaxing. Hard to explain, was hot because it made me feel wanted?
Hell no! Make me feel like she wants more and more.
It would be fine for me, as much and as often as desired.
Gets me nuttinā real quick, that.
It isnāt emasculating in the slightest, thereās nothing emasculating about enjoying having parts of you touched sexually.
Grab those asses!
I love it, especially when she pulls me in.
When doing a creampie, at the moment of truth grab his ass and pull in as hard as you can.
He will remember you always. (I certainly remember all these decades later)
Is it gay to have a butt?
Wife and I just finished a round of mattress polo. There was lots of ass grabbing going on.
A guy i dated for a few months hated anything that had to do with me being anywhere NEAR His ass , but i also dated another guy who would want me to grab it sometimes during missionary , so Iām assuming it depends on the guy hahaha
A guy I dated trained me to do this (quite literally)ā¦ to the benefit of every guy who came since :D.
Go for it . I love it when my wife grabs my butt during PIV
Grab everywhere, including the butt. It makes us feel wanted! Like you canāt get enough of our body! Itās hot!
The guys who said it was emasculatingā¦ idk why it would be
Grab it. Grab it good.
If it leaves a mark, even better.
I do it with pretty much every guy I have sex with and I’ve never heard any complaints. It actually gets them wilder when I push them deeper inside me. I usually accompany the grab with “fuck me harder” “I want you deeper inside me” or “make me cum” – never fails.
Is it gay to have sex with a woman, asking for a friend
For me, it was an instinct even before I liked asses on men, simply since I’d overestimate where the hips are and accidentally get two big handfuls. Now, I just like buttcheeks, its fun.
The guy I’m currently seeing doesn’t have an issue with it. but he’s also secure in his looks/sexuality/masculinity.
It’s a problem if the guy doesn’t like it and you do it anyway. If you aren’t sure how to find out if any partners you have like it, ask.
Two things are equally true:
1) Some guys might not be into it for whatever reason and, as with most sex things, it’s good to establish consent and make sure they’re into it first.
2) As a general rule, men being overly concerned about being “emasculated” by innocuous things is all too often a red flag.