theres been some times when i cry when im done having sex and he leaves the house m(27) and im 20f.. i love this guy with all of my heart.. at this point I dont know what we are. but I love having sex with him i really do I dropped everyone i talked to for him.. i get really excited around him and i sometimes refuse to go down on him but i still do it anyway and I know that he wouldnt do anything to hurt me in anyway. he recently told me that we needed to think of a safeword when one of us feels uncomfortable or something we do that hurts us. and he came up with the safeword and turns out to be waffles. ik its funny but i liked it.. this is normal am i correct?
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I’m not sure what you’re asking. Is it normal to have a safe word? Yes. Why do you cry after sex? Only a therapist or counselor can help you figure out where that is coming from.
Are you in pain after? Do you have rough sex or does he do some bdsm stuff? You might need aftercare honey