Did anyone have to deal with mom and/or dad for sexual relationship?

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1. Many millennials live with their parents. I don’t because I have a tough relationship with mine, otherwise I feel like why wouldn’t I *in this economy*. I did stay with my sister’s ex MIL for awhile, that was kinda like living with a parent.

   If I see a 41M living at home, I mostly want to know *why*. There are some red flags to clear first. Mommy issues/enabling, caregiving, inability to earn a living, and disorders are all “valid” reasons to live at home, I just want to know what I’m working with. My expectation as a woman looking for sexual partners and more is clear and open communication. Hosting with disclaimers is better than not hosting at all imo, but you know your parents best — if they are participating members in your autonomy, things could go okay or horribly.

   Skew a little younger is my guess. I’m 28F and wouldn’t rule out someone living with their parents, but I notice an obvious generational gap with older partners too. Have a good reason for why you’re situation is what it is, and an open minded person might be flexible with accommodating.

2. Go to a hotel

3. I (39f) have been living with my mum since my dad died, following a divorce, she has just recently moved into her bungalow and I now live in my childhood home, and my partner (51m) will be moving in with me when his house sells. My mum was absolutely fine me staying over with my partner and was happy if he wanted to stay over too. I’d ask and she’d just be like “you’re an adult, you can do whatever you want, stop asking!”, but you always feel like a kid at the end of the day as it’s your mum! You are an adult though and whilst she may not like it under her roof then she should have no problem you staying out as she’d likely just be relieved that you’ve met someone, which means you might be out of her hair faster 🤣