I’m not sure if I should call her my ex or not but we’ve been dating and seeing each other for 8 months, we met casually at work as friends and ended up basically doing what couples would do without a title for different reasons.
Anyways I’ve learned to read the room and be aware of our situation and it’s coming down to the end, yesterday she mentioned she doesn’t want to be attached to me which I respected her feelings and what she said, I asked her if this is something she would not like to pursue to please just tell me so I can pick myself up and get back to where I was but she never gave me an answer, I guess it ended with us just giving each other space?
Well like the title says we do work together and I’m actually appointed in a higher role than her and I do have to interact and communicate with her. This is my career and I don’t want this relationship to change it or make my life hell at work.
What are some tips and pointers on maintaining a good relationship with her at work, I know I’m going to have to struggle through the jealousy because to be honest she is the most beautiful girl at my company and she definitely gets that attention paired with her personality she’s a catch… Well at least that’s whats going through my head at the moment.
I’m going to try my very best to be professional as we were both pretty professional when we were together at work, but I’m worried on the triggers that might come up and how to handle them.
TLDR: I work with my ex and what can I do to maintain a healthy relationship between us so I don’t jeopardize my career.
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Just be casual and professional. No more hanging out one on one outside of work. No talk of the personal side you guys had together. Avoid her where possible.