I met this girl over tinder and I’ve never hit it of so well with anyone I’ve ever met. After we matched We spoke for almost 9 hours straight without leaving chat after matching in the middle of the night. We clicked really well, sent the same message at the same time a few times and laughed really hard at our dumb jokes.
The next day she said she was bored so I said we can hang out when I got some money but she was really adamant and said she would pay so I said okay. The date went super well, and we really matched each others energy even better in person, we even had even MORE in common in person in regards to our beliefs, humour and hobbies. It was like some shit out of a movie honestly the way we read each others minds. It was like meeting another me. We also spoke about some really personal stuff as well which I didn’t expect since it was our first date but we both understood as we had similar experiences and backgrounds. Towards the end we also held hands and such and I thought it went really well and so did she apparently after since we talked a lot after.
However, the next day she started talking really slow and eventually left me on delivered for like 20 hours. I asked about it the next day but she said thinks were cool, it didn’t really feel like it especially since she suddenly couldn’t go on the dates we planned at the end of our first date. So I just asked not too long later if she wanted to still get to know each other and if not it was totally cool because we’re all people and hold our own preferences. But then she deleted her insta, I thought she blocked me but apparently not. I feel like shit because I really liked this girl, I’ve never had such good chemistry with someone. My friend asked me to check if she unmatched me on tinder so I re downloaded it and she didn’t but I don’t really think that matters. She did tell me on our date that she had BPD but I don’t know much about it and I don’t wanna blame my inadequacies on her mental health. My friend told me to maybe message her on tinder to ask if things are okay but man I don’t really know what to do. Did she delete her stuff because of me or is there more going on? I really don’t know what could have went wrong, maybe it was my face? She did compliment me on the date but man I really don’t know what went wrong.
What should I do?
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