Yesterday, I went on a date with a couple I met on Tinder. I was attracted to both a lot and they said they found me hot too. Even asked if I wanted to go home with them but became I had an early morning I couldn’t (really wanted to).
The thing is, it was their and my first experience dating like this. The girl was super nervous but I found it adorable. We talked about boundaries and they said maybe penetration with him might be off limits which is fine with me as I’m more interested in exploring women.
I’m just a bit nervous about how it will go down. I’m very experienced with sex but never had a threesome. And because they’re a couple the dynamic might be awkward? Any advice on how we can go on about it?
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You are essentially acting as a unicorn. Make sure you are treated fairly and not just as a toy for them to use.
3somes can be difficult but fun. It hard for any one person to focus on two others.
The biggest issue is if she thinks he is enjoying you or paying more attention to you than her, she will get jealous and there could be drama. That is something they have to work out.
Meet with them again and talk about it, to make sure you guys have clear understanding of everyone boundaries and expectations. Be yourself, take it slow and make sure you ask for negative std screening results. Be safe