So my fiancé (32F) told me a month ago that she wasn’t sure if she wanted to do this (aka marriage) anymore. That comment made me feel extremely insecure in our relationship and although we’ve talked about our issues and ultimately decided we want to work on things and be together, when a hiccup happens in our relationship or something happens where one of us is displeased with something that happens, I start to worry that she’s having second thoughts again. Then I’ll ask and she’ll say “I don’t know l” or “I don’t want to talk about this right now”. I am on a waiting list for therapy eta 1-2 months) because I’m sure I have some deeply rooted issues I need to work on but I’m afraid she’s lost interest. I love her more than anything and I don’t want to put pressure on our interactions. I just want us to be happy and care-free around each other again. Any tips on how to deal with self-sabotaging behavior and overthinking? Splitting up is not an option to me, not until I know I’ve done everything to make this work. I know I can’t make her love me, or want to be with me. But we’ve always been so great together, and now it feels like we’re constantly struggling.