So I’m having trouble making my gf cum, I start off slow, plenty of foreplay and oral. It gets to a point she’s literally shaking and after a while she pulls me up indicating she wants to have full on sex and I presumed that this was me nearly finishing or finishing her but I asked if I had ever done it and she had told me I had not. I asked her if there was anything I could do or if there was anything I’m doing wrong but she states that I’m not the issue, I told her I’m a grown man I don’t have a fragile ego cause at the end of the day I want her to enjoy herself to the most she possibly can and if there was something I could be doing I want to be doing it. She describes it as she gets to the point she feels like she’s going too but the feeling of needing to pee comes and it becomes very sensitive. Then when that happens she starts to think about orgasming but this just stops her from doing it. What should I do? Will this be a time thing to get her more comfortable or should I just switch some stuff in the bedroom and see what can make her tick. I love her so much and want to translate that into the bedroom.
Peace out.
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Assuming she is able to have orgasms by masturbating, having her stimulate her own clit while you are having intercourse might be a good first thing to try to see if she can get all the way there while you’re having sex.
If she feels like she needs to pee, that seems to be her on the verge of orgasm (possibly squirting). You should tell her that it’s natural and see if she can put herself over the edge the next time that feeling comes up.
Also if that’s not it, sex toys are great ways to maximize stimulation for her. For example penetrate her while letting her use a wand vibrator on her clit. I personally very rarely cum with just penetration alone, I almost always need clitoral stimulation, and when both are happening at the same time, I’m almost guaranteed to cum with enough time and if I’m in the right mood.
Hmmm. You will experience this for the rest of your days. Finding out that combination that makes a woman tick is part of the fun. Experiment.